But today is a special day.
And so I must celebrate.
Today is the husband’s 31st birthday.
I will celebrate.
I will celebrate because it is an odd number, and we all know how I feel about those.
I will celebrate because he is officially in his 30’s and I am still, hahahaha, in my 20’s. Late 20’s. Almost 30’s. But not 30’s.
I will celebrate because like a small child he wants a confetti cake with confetti icing and that crap is too sweet for even me, so I won’t gain a pound from this cake, because it is one cake I don’t want to eat.
And so, because I love him and because it is an odd number and I like odd numbered lists, I am giving him, and also you, the 31 Reasons Why I Love the Husband Today.
Why just today? Why not every day? Because every day brings new reasons. And because sometimes, what I loved yesterday…annoys the crap out of me today. Let’s be honest.
31 Reasons Why I Love You Today
1. Last night you made me watch Alien (for the first time) and when the creepy facehugger thing popped onto that guy’s mask and turned him into a living incubator…you crawled a hand across my face and almost made me piss myself.
2. This morning we were working with our son to teach him math. When he got an answer wrong, you comforted him by saying, “It’s okay. Mommy didn’t know it either.”
3. We have a very real communication problem: our understanding of what the act of wearing shorts means. I put on shorts because I am hot and want to sleep comfortably. Because I put on shorts, you believe I am saying, “I’m obviously horny and want sex.”
4. Texas Roadhouse posted pictures of their rolls this morning on twitter. When I complained that it wasn’t fair to torture us, and they aren’t even open yet, you said, “Well, if you’d just figure out the recipe already it wouldn’t be such a big deal.”
5. I’ve been working on a master plan to get your mother’s apple cake recipe. You concocted one of your own: Asking her for it.
6. When you are sleeping and I climb into bed next to you, you perform the most loving of actions. You roll over, put me into a headlock and growl. It may be the adrenaline pumping in an effort to keep me from realizing I’m suffocating, but those romantic moments make bedtime so special.
7. Last night you explained Predator to me. Your face like up like a little boy and I realized you were having your Dorkraki moment. Go ahead. Tease me again.
8. When the Family Guy episode came on where Brian does mushrooms, you looked at me and said, “Is it really like that?”
*Side note: I never once….I repeat…never once did mushrooms. Thank you.
9. I explained the moment of conception through battle terms and compared your sperm to a horde of Zerglings.
10. You’ve never read my blog.
11. When you are playing your games you mumble phrases like, “Death is my bitch” or “My mind is full of bacon”.
12. You’ve also never read my books.
13. I once asked you to read to our son and he brought you Mr. Brown Can Moo, Can You? You shot me a glare after every page.
14. I was lying next to you when you grumbled, “Shit. You whore.” I knew there was a Banshee on the screen and gave you a comforting pat on the back.
15. You know I am ticklish and so put a finger into my armpit and tell me not to laugh or you’ll tickle me. This is an impossible request. You jerk.
16. You tell me to shut up during sex.
17. You have never once questioned the fact that I am submissive with you…even when I go all fembot on someone else.
18. “The foot is down” has become your catch phrase. If you were a superhero you would say it whenever you entered a fight.
19. You were right about Batman…and Ghostrider…and you fooled me into thinking you’d let them watch Predator, but you knew better.
20. You take a relatively difficult concept and break it down in seconds. I try to explain Global Warming to someone, you say: “Basically there’s this shit called ozone that protects us and we are some trashy motherfuckers, so now the place is a wreck and the temperature is going to get all whacked out until we all die in a fiery VolNadoCane of Doom.”
21. You voted this year.
22. You voted the same as me this year.
23. You still ask me to play video games with you. Even though I can’t aim. Or walk and shoot at the same time. Or actually hit anything. Or not die.
24. You showed me how to buy dye so my character could be color coordinated in Diablo.
25. You buy me rubber duckies. Therefore my addiction is your fault.
26. You buy me shoes. A lot.
27. I told you I was going on a diet and you looked at my thighs and butt and said, “If those go away, I go away.”
28. Your hair is prettier than mine.
29. When people come up and say to you, “Your children are beautiful” and you say, “Thanks” while I’m staring back and forth between your awesome tan and my children’s veins shining through their oober pale skin. Whaaaa?
30. You were smart enough to marry a good lady when you found one. Yep. Smart man.
31. Yesterday, I read our son that lovey dovey book that makes him smile and makes you tease him. So I’ll give you the killer line: